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When your child faces the unknown—a new teacher, a changed plan, or a challenging assignment—worry can feel overwhelming. Instead of spiralling into 'what ifs,' you can offer them a simple, powerful tool: the Fact, Action, Friend method. This three-part check helps shrink big feelings and guides them towards calm, confident action.
Why Worry Takes Over
Worry is loud and relentless. When it floods in, your child's thinking becomes clouded. They might forget what they know, struggle to remember steps, or feel paralysed by fear. This isn't a lack of trying—it's how our brains respond to uncertainty.
The key is to recognise that calming must come first. Once feelings settle, the thinking part of the brain comes back online. Suddenly, those small, manageable steps feel possible again. This is why reassurance paired with a clear plan works so well.
Fact - Name What You Know
Start by grounding your child in reality. Ask them to name one thing they know for sure about the situation. This could be:
- 'Your class starts at 9, and the teacher always shares slides.'
- 'We've done this type of assignment before.'
- 'The bus route hasn't changed.'
Naming a fact interrupts the worry loop. It shifts focus from imagined fears to concrete truth. This single step can make everything feel a little more solid.
Action - Choose One Small Step
Next, identify one tiny, doable action. Don't try to solve everything at once. Just pick the very next thing your child can do:
- 'Let's pack your bag now.'
- 'We'll email one question to the teacher.'
- 'You can review the first paragraph tonight.'
The action doesn't have to be big. It just needs to be real. Taking even the smallest step forward helps break the feeling of being stuck and builds momentum towards progress.
Friend - Pick Someone to Connect With
Finally, help your child choose one person they can reach out to for support. This could be a friend, a teacher, or a family member:
- 'You can text Sam to check what she's bringing.'
- 'Ask Ms. Lee if you're unsure about the instructions.'
- 'We can chat about it over breakfast tomorrow.'
Knowing there's someone to lean on makes challenges feel less isolating. It reminds your child they're not facing the unknown alone.
Make It Your Go-To Routine
Write the three steps on a sticky note: Fact, Action, Friend. Keep it somewhere visible—on your child's desk, in their planner, or on the fridge. Repeat this routine whenever worry appears.
You're not promising that everything will be easy. You're showing them a way through it. Over time, this simple check becomes automatic, helping your child navigate uncertainty with greater confidence and calm.
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